Monday, May 9, 2016

Is there anything wrong with baby mamas and men with baby mamas?


Firstly, lets get the definition of a baby mama. Merriam-Webster's dictionary says 

A baby mama is "the mother of a man's biological child; especially one who is not married to or in a long-term, intimate relationship with the child's father"

Nowadays it is not strange for men to flaunt the pictures of their baby mamas and for some ladies to own up to the fact that they are baby mamas.

Society seems to have declared that there is nothing wrong with it and the minds of our young generation seem to have accepted it as a norm. The conscience of society has been seared. 

One question we should ask ourselves is this: Is it right or wrong? Or have we as human beings accepted it as normal?
Let's think deeply. 

For the babymama
  • Why would a woman want to be a baby mama? 
  • Is it because she feels she can have sex to trap a man? 
  • Or was the child a mistake or a result of having sex when you should not be having sex in the first place? 
  • Is there any problem with marrying the man and having children under the right conditions?
  • Do you know what it is as a child, to be born out of wedlock and to grow up knowing this?
  • Do you know what it is as a child, to grow up with an absentee father?
For the man who has a babymama
  • Why would you go around having sex when you know you are not ready to be a father?
  • Why would you go around having sex when you know you don't want to marry the lady?
  • Would you want your daughter to be a baby mama?
  • Do you know what it is to be born out of wedlock and to grow up knowing this?
There is a reason why God instituted marriage and stated that children should be born into homes with fathers and mothers. There is a reason why men should not go around having baby mamas. 

For all intents and purposes, women must uphold their rights to have good lives and it is not right to be called a baby mama. Do not let any man trick you to be a baby mama.

The baby mama syndrome is not right for you and for society.

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