Sunday, December 23, 2012

5 Top Marriage Killers You Don’t Realize You’re Doing

Marriage is tough. It’s even tougher when it hits a rough patch. If you don’t know what marriage is… it’s a continuous work of art that changes every day with the good and the bad that happens in people’s daily lives and it takes two people to make it work. What are married people supposed to do if they want to work on their relationship?

First, you may seek counseling that will help you fend off a divorce or that who just want to plain give up on the relationship. Second, you may spend time apart to work on your issues. Another way to stave off bad feelings in a marriage is be aware the 5 things that can kill a marriage.

(1) Centering on Yourself - Why is this number one on the list of five? If you always think about your own needs first and not the needs of your spouse or children, it’s likely that your marriage will fail before it can even get off the ground. If you’re a person that finds themselves in this sort of relationship, don’t despair. There’s hope. Try doing something for your spouse. This is something out of the ordinary. Do something when they least expect it too.

(2) Keeping Your Feelings Inside – Those feelings that you keep inside of you tend to build up until they spill out all at once, mostly in a bad way too.

(3) No Restraints –
Some people have a habit of talking all the time instead of holding in their feelings and words. If you find yourself as this sort of person, there is hope for you. However, you need patience to fix this issue. You can stop yourself from talking all the time, even if you don’t think so.

(4) Interruptions – Do you have a habit of interrupting your significant other when they are talking? This is a problem that needs to be corrected because everybody wants to be heard. Make sure to allow your spouse some talking time too.

(5) No Affections – Even if you and your spouse are having an argument and agree to disagree, you both need to express your love for each other, whether verbally or physically after the fact. When there is a marriage with no affections, both parties can feel unloved.

Have you noticed that the majority of the list centers on lack of communication in a marriage? This is due to the fact that a marriage cannot work without spouses talking to one another.

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